astroman thanks for the sentiment.... what you say has merit , overall my stance on drugs and everything else is quite liberal and Live and Let Live, and personal right to choose....... and all that jazz.....I could look at a million pictures of Brent and not think twice about the way he died. There is just an "x" factor in this equation and the "x" factor is his daughter sitting there looking up at him lovingly. I have an 8 year old daughter, and when I imagine how she would feel when told that she would never see her daddy again because he had an accident taking drugs, it just breaks my heart. Throw the loss of my brother into the equation and it just brings out a pavlovian response.
.......................................................have you heard the one about the yellow dog?