china - i can kind of relate to your initial reaction but think through whats really involved for a minute. your asking a considerable commitment from, at minimum, 5 people. More likely, assuming a gd-ish instrumentation with 5 in the band, and crew of maybe 2 "roadies" (if that isnt too formal or the context) the total would be 7. You want 4 hours of play, i think its safe to say they are sinking 6 hours of time, likely at a fairly peak/expensive time (weekend night). the country club is certainly not chipping in a drink share or anything. each band/crew member seeing (at least) 100 plus some towards group expenses, and theres the 1000.
playing music is probably something they love, but that does not mean its easy work! ever been tired after dancing a lot at a concert? think of the band! although guitar is my main instrument, the entirety of my paid gigs was 3 shows with a pre-existing but not particularly successful funk/soul kind of band. myself and a great sax player whod been teaching me had a somewhat peripharal role (2 practices before first gig was plenty), and we played pretty small bars. but i still got 50 for the first and 100 for the next two, my teacher getting slightly more and the "central" band members more still. and this band was not in any way a big deal, the place was rocking but a good chunk of them knew band members personally. point of my rambling, playing music IS work!
unless youve really got the money to blow i really dont think you put that kind of money into a high school class. i find the rental alone pretty surprising - how many people are attending this thing? sorry to speculate but honestly are you trying to make shit happen and cross the roleplay/reality barrier with your lady partner? understandable if you are, but i cant see this being successful. if anything jumping too hard at what should be pretty casual thing might seem a little desperate. a few well thought compliments or displays of thoughtfulness with genuine interest beyond physical would go further, and much cheaper.
wow look at all that. i should shut up
