#27766  by JakeSwearingen
 
Hi, we've got a great new article up about the Dead, from the point of view of people who at first didn't like the band, and then slowly began to realize what was so special about them. You can read it here: http://crawdaddy.wolfgangsvault.com/Art ... px?id=3682

A brief sample:
As a San Franciscan with more angry punk than twirly dance hippie in me, I figured it was not only my birthright, but also my moral obligation, to hate the Dead. For my entire natural life, resisting their supposed lure posed no problem for me, even though from the day I was born the very air I breathed was filled with their jams. I made damn sure that very little could penetrate the stony psychic wall I’d erected to protect myself from hearing them or from consorting with their kind, those dirty followers of theirs known as Deadheads. Yep, them. They who would seasonally perch themselves on my doorstep adjacent the Panhandle and regularly taunt me with the question, "Have you seen Jerry?" "No, I haven't, you freak!" I'd say, emphasizing the word "freak" while glaring at them as I stomped off to work (you know, work, as in job). At the time, I didn't fully understand going to see the Grateful Dead, night after night, was their job. As it happened, my job was working as a receptionist for the concert promoter in town, where throughout the day I would receive people with names like "Mountain Girl" and "Bear" with suspicion, a sneer, and an asymmetrical haircut. Like I said, I was surrounded.

But as these stories go, the vociferous hatred—verging on phobia—often masks a shadowy side (or at least a very large, Dead-logo-like skeleton in the closet). And so, I live to report that I've had a shift in consciousness, having made the proverbial long strange trip from Dead hater to doubter to full-on believer, but with a few caveats: I'm still not sold on Bob Weir, I don't own anything tie-dyed, and those dancing bears make my skin crawl. Ironically (or not), it took me leaving the Bay Area to discover just how much I missed the omnipresent and unmistakable sound of Jerry in the air (the local FM doesn't really program them in the California Southland). And yet, I find I'm still a little nervous to admit to my new friends that I find much to admire about the good ol’ Grateful Dead for fear that even the freest thinking ones will stereotype me as some SF hippie chick. As I get adjusted to this new me, I thought I'd go in search of stories from other latecomers, reluctant converts, certified Heads, and the Dead's fellow musicians to see just what they had to say about the timeless and mystical push/pull of the ultimate jam band, and its impact on their lives.
Hope everyone enjoys, we like it a lot.

 #27823  by CaptainTrips
 
Man that so used to be me. I used to hate the band and the music so hard. The friend that turned me on didnt see any success in his work until like three years later when I started actually playing guitar, and Jerry was my motivation. He took me to my first ever concert, ABB, my first "dead" show, the Other Ones in 2002 (2 shows actually, a mini-tour) and at that time I was like, hey that "I will survive" song aint to shabby. And now we just got done going to see Phil in Glens Falls and I was so psyched to hear such gems as Pride of Cucamonga, Unbroken Chain, Dark Star and the ultimate Help>Slip>Franklin's. Its weird how music tastes evolve . . .

 #27839  by GratefulFloyd
 
haha this article was pretty cool. makes me so grateful (no pun intended) to be a Head, god i love em'

 #27841  by krzykat
 
i used to live with some gutter punks in Mi. and they refused to listen to Jerry and the boyz. Finally I was like ya'll listen to jonny cash but wont even give the dead a try? They cover Jonny Cash.
I threw big river on for them and one said damn i can't say i hate the dead anymore
 #27860  by Tennessee Jedi
 
Great story.Almost cried when I read it.

 #27996  by krzykat
 
just because someone believes something differant from you does not make them a fool. Everyone is entitled to thier opinion, they are also entitled to change said opinion. I have a handful of friends that don't listen to the dead but they are not fools, they just have differant likes, and I accept them the way they are

love and light

 #28011  by Shaggy
 
Some people can't get over the image of the whole Grateful Dead's supposed persona and put up on media image. I've always said to people all that is meaningless, strip all that away and there is a pretty tight band that wrote some great songs, made some great albums and put on great live shows.

When people can listen to them like they will listen to any other new band then there isn't a problem. Because then you can like them or not on the strength of what they actually were.