[jackr]

It looks to me like he already has his mind made up. I think that the advise here was just the opposite of what he was looking for.

[gumbo]

It looks to me like he already has his mind made up. I think that the advise here was just the opposite of what he was looking for.

Totally not true, I'm also not looking for, nor am I expecting any support. I also have not made up my mind on this either, thats why I asked people who might know. No need to be this way, I feel sorta offended in ways. Either way, I thank you all for your input, and if the majority of you really dont think this is a good idea, then I will seriously be looking into other things, so as not to dive into things head first. I am not in any hurry for anything....

[jackr]

I certainly didnt mean to offend. Call it "tough love"

I really dont want you to go through what I went through.

I think that the strong majority here has said things similar to what I have said. They may have done it with more tact then me but nonetheless it is the same end message.

[gumbo]

I know you only mean the best for me and you seem to know what your talking about (as well as the others). Its just crazy beacuse its like my whole life is in my hands soon and I dont know what to do with it, ya know? I'm doing my homework and am (sorta) figuring things out about what I'm going to do. Thanks too for some insight.......

[jackr]

Its just crazy beacuse its like my whole life is in my hands soon and I dont know what to do with it, ya know?

You are young, dont worry about the rest of your life too much now. If you stay on the proper path you will figure it out along the way. The joy is in the journey not the destination. You can avoid some of the misery that others have endured and reap more of the joy that is available.

The old cliche - A smart man learns from his mistakes, A wise man learns from other's mistatkes.

[myoung6923]

Another quote - from Cat Stevens:

It's not time to make a change,
Just relax, take it easy.
You're still young, thats your fault,
Theres so much you have to know.
Find a girl, settle down,
If you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy.

I was once like you are now, and I know that its not easy,
To be calm when you've found something going on.
But take your time, think a lot,
Why, think of everything you've got.
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not.