I read most, if not all, of the original thread before it was deleted. This thread is surely more helpful and useful than the deleted one.
I have found it is pretty common for creative types to be pretty terrible when it comes to deadlines and organization in general. I wont bother speculating why this is the case. Often there will be a "business" guy in partnership with the ideas guy for this reason. Its often worth the headaches in order to get an extraordinary product. One can always get a mass produced corporate product if schedule and logistics do not allow for delays etc.
People often have no idea how difficult starting and running a business is, especially in todays climate...preferring to see the position as all freedom and big money. That just isn't reality usually, especially with small businesses it can be quite the opposite. Long hours and sacrificing to make payroll is more common. Being the owner boss of a small business often means you are the guy that has to answer to, and accommodate, everybody else practically speaking. And there is no "personal" time like an employee enjoys.
That said, honesty is the key I think. I hate telling people what they don't want to hear, but it is always better in the long run. Anger and persecution usually stops when admission and a plan of reperation is made.
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