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 #17575  by d-v-s
 Tue Jun 05, 2007 4:08 am
chubbypony wrote: I understand my whole world will be turned upside down but I believe i am in a lot better place then most teenage fathers.
all I can say is good luck with the whole thing - pregnancy, birth, and baby. if u need any advice from new fathers, it looks like we have a few in the forum, and I can only speak for myself, but feel free to PM any time if you have any questions.

One bit of advice that I got on names: once you choose a name that you and your girlfriend like, don't tell anybody the name. If you tell 5 people a name, 1 person is sure to criticize it and then you'll start to doubt it. Pick it, and keep it to yourself.

 #17576  by jackr
 Tue Jun 05, 2007 4:13 am
Just wanted to say congrats and good luck. I have no opionion on names for you.

Fatherhood is terrific. It is demanding and will force you to grow up quickly but it is rewarding. Your live does change but that is only a negative or positive thing depending on your attitude.

 #17581  by broomhead
 Tue Jun 05, 2007 5:32 am
kindergarten might be tough for a young skydog... :lol: Two months ago you needed help on how to clean your pipe :D now your having a baby. You've come a long way, young jedi..Wow.

No matter what choices you guys make your lives will change drastically. To be responsible for another life is really an enormous responsibility. However, to be called daddy and to love and be loved so much is phenomenal. As someone who tried just about everything and thought he'd felt everything there was that moment when my daughters were born that was just mind blowing.

I wish both of you Health, wealth and happiness.
Sincerely, joe

 #17584  by whitelacestrange
 Tue Jun 05, 2007 5:49 am
i dont know man.... im only 18 myself and i could never see myself with a kid, im way too irresponsible, self destructive, and it would be so much effort just getting my own shit together....

but thats just me, good luck to you man

 #17592  by Erictw83
 Tue Jun 05, 2007 7:21 am
I applaud your maturity and fortitude chubbypony. I'm 23 and I consider myself and my life pretty well together for... my age. Even so the mere thought of myself having kids is well enough to scare the pants right back on me. Many congratulations, good luck.

 #17608  by mikenohio
 Tue Jun 05, 2007 11:26 am
I'm disappointed in you guys. No one commented on my "sly" GD reference... LOL
Keira Celeste (last name Jones)
K.C. Jones

 #17609  by AugustWest
 Tue Jun 05, 2007 11:38 am
Should have been delilah jones. That give you a great chance at having a lot of grandkids.

 #17610  by JONZILLA
 Tue Jun 05, 2007 11:49 am
I'm 23 and my girlfriend is... well... late. I dunno what's up yet but I'm just glad I've had my career in order for 2 years now (engineer). At least I've got funds (if it does turn out I'm a dad). I wish you the best of luck chubbypony and look forward to hearing of little chubbypony soon. I guess it is mating season for humans after all.

 #17611  by JONZILLA
 Tue Jun 05, 2007 11:51 am
Oh, and on names... I like Hunter for a boy and Sicilia (sp?) for a girl.