All good points guys... it sucks to see a "Perfect Storm" of sorts, I hope that everyone has a great turnout and an awesome time.
Strummin'... You summed up the gist of my message nicely.
Rusty... Shit Happens! I hope you have a good turn-out and that you have fun playing... I wouldn't beat myself up over it if I were you, we all learn from life. I know how tough a gig can be when there is no one in the house to let the "Music to play the band..."
Emoto... Yes, most musicians play for the enjoyment but not many bar owners are in business for shits and giggles.
TJ... Yes it is crowded, literally... But it can be difficult packing a house or getting folks out if you AREN'T a DSO, Ratdog, etc... Playing Dead is really the big hitter on the block in that respect and they have the best draw. The shows around the Shows were no-brainers, you have a "captive" audience in that respect.
Your last remark is a tough one, read Vic's statement and see that usually this isn't a typical thing. Which is why I used the "Perfect Storm analogy"... It's not a matter of simply "giving XYZ a chance", but making sure that you don't shoot yourself in the foot by booking against another band and essentially forcing some people to make a choice of one band OR another.
Vic... every single statement you made was right on. Sorry, I screwed up the dates and didn't fully fact check before I sent the message. Clearly you did your homework and went with what you felt was best for PD and best overall. I do know that Harper's and a lot of other place book WAY in advance and they don't promote until after the last gig. If I'm not mistaken, they also limit you to NOT performing within a certain radius of them for a certain period of time before and after a show at their place. It's good to see you were prepared to adjust the schedule to work around the situation, it's unfortunate that Harper's did not want adjust with you... C'est La Vie!
I also understand that not stepping on toes is something that goes on, there have been gigs passed up for those reasons. I think this thread show that it was a series of unfortunate events and not a deliberate act... And I'm sure those damn Journey bands don't all talk shop and agonize over Neil's gear on RUSCHON.COM...
Economy aside... My money would go to any of the bands EXCEPT DSO... that's my $.02!
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Thanks for all the kind words guys... She crossed the bridge @ 1:00 while I held her in my arms at the vets office, sitting on the floor... We were listening to Looks Like Rain from Without A Net on my PDA phone.
And I'm sorry I took all of the rage and pain inside me and funneled it into the message I sent earlier...