Here's the best way to smuggle in that new Carvin. Go to Victoria's Secret, buy something cheap but cool, and have them put it in a Victoria's Secret box. Then as you come in the door and you wife sees the box, you say, "Hey - no peaking. This is a present for you later." Then take the box into your music room, remove the Carvin, and you're set!
When we Go to Heaven, will Jer ask whether we were the perfect Jerry ... or whether we were the perfect us?
What does Jerry tone mean to you? Copying Jerry slavishly? Honoring Jer's music no particular way but our own?
We're each of us unique. And also the same. Can we open our hearts and minds to both?