I guess most guys start playing guitar as a sort of breeding ornament, like a peacock's tail, to attract more females. Like having a nice car. And I suspect that it works for them. I don't think women pick it up with the same goal in mind, although it works for me too. I love the challenge of the instrument. I play electric and I don't limit myself to simple chords. I play lead guitar. I suppose I play with a melodic, feminine touch, but I can get loud and crunchy too. I have good speed and dexterity. But guitar is a boy's club. It just is.