I too quit my band and am happy for it, but for different reasons. When we started four years ago, I had just dropped out of a country-western band and never wanted to do that kind of thing again. I ran into a singer/songwriter that I got along real fine with and who, at first, seemed very interested in my vision of a psychedelic/country rock/jam band thing like the New Riders or the Dead from the Workingman's Dead/American Beauty era. But eventually, as we developed into a four-piece band, it turned out that they didn't understand what the whole scene was about, they were interested only in the country stuff, the fast 2/4 time songs and found any tune longer than three minutes annoying. The bass player, an ex-punk, said he hated hippies and the drummer, who, BTW, had a pretty brutal playing style and nowhere near the skills required for a good country drummer (he even disliked to play shuffles, go figure), claimed he hated electric guitars...I finally couldn't take it anymore.