Ive gotten both ends. Some of the less dead bands have called me on it, "dude, its not a dead song". And other jerry types have commented on how they are a better Jerry...I dont really play with those dudes anymore!
Our new Bobby guy is a great Bobby guy, and Im loving it. His inversions, little lines, his dissonance, its all a welcome change.
Our bass player is very busy like Phil. He can play straighter, but he doesnt like to. I love his playing, others, maybe might want more babonk babonk babonk out of him. I let him do whatever he wants...Even when he pisses me off with statements like, "well, I dont really like the soloing so much" To which he is told hes in the wrong fucking band!
Bottom line is that he gets it and loves it. So does the rest of the band. Others do not. We have been in the situation of people coming into the band not out of a love of Dead inspired playing, but for want of a gig. They underestimate it, then get frustrated at the sheer volume of things they need to know and instinctively do, get defensive, and then the cracks soon appear...
Information is not knowledge. Knowledge is not wisdom. Wisdom is not beauty. Beauty is not love. Love is not music. Music is the best.- the girl from the bus